Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Only Two Types of Fighters -The Quick & The Dead. Better to Just Let Go.

When relationships have run their course, it's better to just part, without fighting & blaming. This leaves both parties whole and alive. This doesn't mean that you can't be pissed & ask Art to call him or her a bitch or a bastard. Still, just let um go & realize they're doing the best they can too. This is often more easily said than done and still painful but worth it.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Author Frederick Buechner says this:How can you best serve, in love, the best interests of the spouse you are miserable with, ...with yourself, with God? There is no book to look up the answer in. There is only your own heart and whatever by God's grace it has picked up in the way of insight, honesty, courage, humility, and maybe above everything else, compassion.
yes, easier said than done...